Misogyny
What is Misogyny – it’s been defined as dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.
It’s different from Sexism.
Philosopher Kate Manne of Cornell University defines misogyny as the attempt to control and punish women who challenge male dominance. She says the traditional "hatred of women" definition of misogyny too simplistic, because it does not account for how perpetrators of misogynistic violence may love certain women; for example, their mothers. Manne distinguishes sexism, which she says seeks to rationalise and justify patriarchy, from misogyny, which she calls the "law enforcement" branch of patriarchy.
Have you ever experienced Misogyny? I don’t think that I have although I have certainly experienced sexism for example in applying for jobs. Julia Gillard, ex-PM of Australia, famously called out her colleagues for entrenched misogyny and New Zealand’s Jacinda Ardern has been subjected to extraordinary misogynistic attacks. I’ve been thinking about misogyny in the wake of Jacinda’s resignation and wondering how we came to have such a degree of misogyny in our society today. I don’t have the answers and I feel sad that there is a certain group within society that feel this type of abuse is justified.
Dealing with misogyny is not easy, but some strategies may help. Steps you can take to care for yourself and others who are faced with misogynistic behavior include:
Don't ignore it: Call out misogynistic behavior when you see it and make it clear that it is not acceptable.
Report it: In work settings, talk to your manager or human resources department.
Leave the situation: Setting boundaries can be helpful, but it is often best to leave the situation if possible.
Create safe spaces: Support and uplift all women. Work to become more aware of the damaging effects of internalized misogyny and how it can lead to the punishment of women who challenge the patriarchal status quo.
Care for yourself: Practice self-care and relaxation strategies to deal with stress.
If misogyny is causing distress or disruptions in your life, you may also find it helpful to talk to a mental health professional. They can help you process your experience, develop new coping strategies, and explore ideas for how to deal with misogynistic behavior.
